ʻO ke kanaka hoʻonaʻauao: Ke hana nei nā mea hoʻokele ma ke alanui e like me nā ʻīlio hae i loko o kahi pūʻulu
Ua kamaʻilio ʻo Andrzej Markowski, ke kālaikala kaʻa, ka hope pelekikena o ka Association of Transport Psychologists ma Polani, no ke aha e mālama ai nā kāne he nui i ka hoʻokele e like me ka hakakā a pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka huhū alanui.
Ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine a ʻoi aku paha ka hewa? ʻAʻohe kānalua ka helu o nā mākaʻi e hoʻonui lākou i nā pōʻino.
- ʻAʻole ʻoi aku ka hewa o nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pōʻino. ʻO kēia no ka mea ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka holo, ke kaʻa wiwo ʻole lākou, ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa o ka palekana ma mua o nā wahine. Pono lākou e hōʻike i mua o nā wāhine, e hoʻomalu i ke alanui, ma muli o nā genetic determinants.
No laila aia nā manaʻo biological e pili ana i ka hakakā kāne no ka noho aliʻi ma ke alanui?
- ʻAe, ʻaʻole kēia he manaʻo, akā he hana. I ka hihia o ka mea hoʻokele kāne, he hana ʻokoʻa loa o kāna psyche ma mua o ka wahine. E hakakā ke kanaka ma mua o nā mea a pau no ka wahi mua o ka puaʻa, inā hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohana i kahi huaʻōlelo mai ka honua holoholona. No laila pono ʻo ia e hoʻopiʻi, ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hōʻoia mau iā ia iho a hōʻoia i kona ikaika. Ma kēia ala, hāʻawi ke kāne iā ia iho - a makemake paha ʻo ia e hana me ka ʻike ʻole - hiki i nā wahine he nui. A ʻo kēia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ka biology o nā ʻano kanaka - ʻaʻole wale ke ʻano kanaka. No laila, ʻokoʻa ke ʻano o ka hoʻokele ʻana o nā kāne i ko lākou wā mua mai ka wahine. I ka hihia hope loa, ʻaneʻane pau ka huhū, ʻoiai, e like me nā manawa a pau, aia nā ʻokoʻa.
No laila hiki iā ʻoe ke koho mua i ka mea e hoʻokele me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ka pale makani?
- Hiki iā ʻoe ke maʻamau. ʻO kahi kaʻa kaʻa akamai, ʻike i ka hakakā alanui, hiki ke haʻi mai kahi mamao aku i ka mea e hoʻokele nei i ke kaʻa: ʻo kāna mea hoʻokūkū, ʻo ia. kekahi kāne, he lālā o ka wahine maikaʻi, a he keonimana i ka pāpale. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ia ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo ka poʻe kahiko, "nā kaʻa kaʻa Lāpule" makemake lākou i kahi kaʻa mālie a, ʻo ka mea kupanaha, ʻaʻahu pinepine lākou i nā pāpale. Inā ʻaʻole e hele mālie nā mea ʻē aʻe a me ke kāne o ka pāpale.
ʻO kēlā hakakā o nā kāne ma ke alanui, ʻaʻole naʻe, he epilogue kaumaha kona - nā ulia, ka make, ke kīnā o nā mea hoʻohana alanui ʻē aʻe.
"A he mea pono ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ma mua o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka pedal kinoea i loko o ke kaʻa. ʻOiai kēia mau kūlana olaola, pono ia a pono e hoʻokele e like me nā lula o ke alanui. Nui nā hoʻokūkū ʻē aʻe.
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