Nā hiʻohiʻona kaʻa no nā mākua e hiki mai ana
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Nā hiʻohiʻona kaʻa no nā mākua e hiki mai ana

Hoʻomaikaʻi, he pēpē kāu ma ke ala! He manawa hoihoi kēia i kou ola - ʻo ia hoʻi, i ka wā i lanakila ai ʻoe i ka hopohopo o ke kuleana no kahi ola liʻiliʻi. Nui nā mea hiki ke manaʻo ʻia mai nā pō hiamoe ʻole a me ka hānai ʻana i ka pō i nā pāʻani liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi a me nā hoʻolaha.

Eia nō naʻe, mamao loa kēia, a pono ʻoe e hōʻoia ua mākaukau ʻoe no ka hiki ʻana mai o ke pēpē. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi moena, stroller, diapers, ʻōmole. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi noho keiki hou no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e pilikia i ka palekana, ʻeā? Akā, pehea kāu kaʻa? ʻAʻole anei kēia ka manawa e hoʻonohonoho ai i kahi huila e pili ana i ka ʻohana?

Inā ʻo ia ka manawa e kūʻai ai i kaʻa ʻohana hou, pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i nā huaʻōlelo tech a me nā kiʻi kiʻi nani a ʻike i nā hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i kāu kūleʻa makua e hiki mai ana.

Noho ma ka noho hope

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻokele i kahi kaʻa me kahi noho keiki ma hope pono o ʻoe, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i ʻike i ka pono o ka nui o ka noho hope. He liʻiliʻi nā keiki a ʻaʻole pono ka nui o ka wahi, ʻeā? Ua hewa! Ma kahi o ʻelua mau makahiki, ua lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o ko lākou mau wāwae e hana ai i ka whiplash ke kī lākou i ke kua o kou noho. ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia pehea e hiki ai i ke kino, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo.

Ke kūʻai ʻoe i kaʻa, e ʻimi i kahi kaʻa i lawa ka lumi no kahi kanaka makua ma ka noho hope. ʻAʻole wale kēia e pale i nā kī kī ʻole i ke kua, akā e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi lumi kūpono e noho pono ai a hoʻopaʻa i luna me ka ʻole e koi i nā neʻe acrobatic o Pilates. Ke ulu aʻe kāu keiki, e nui ana kāu kaʻa e hoʻohana.

Paʻa ukana nui

Ua hele paha ʻoe i kahi lā huakaʻi me kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha i loaʻa kahi keiki? Inā ʻoe e hele ana i kahakai no ka lā, i ka hale keaka, i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, a i ʻole e hele wale ana ma ke alanui e lawe i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i ka mālama lā, pono ʻoe i nā huakaʻi he nui mai ka home a i ke kaʻa e hoʻouka i nā mea āpau āu pono. Hoʻokomo pinepine ʻia ka pā pāʻani, ka ʻeke diaper, ka ʻeke ʻai, ka lole lole, ka mea hele wāwae, ka stroller, a me nā mea hou aʻe i loko o ka ʻeke a i ʻole ka sunroof o kahi kaʻa.

I kēia manawa he keiki ponoʻī kāu, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa i kāu kaʻa ma ke ʻano like. ʻAʻole loa - ke haʻi hou aku nei au, ʻaʻole loa - ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahi ukana inā ʻoe e halihali ana i kahi keiki me ʻoe. ʻO kahi sedan piha piha me kahi pahu nui he maikaʻi, ʻoiai ke kūlana mua ka minivan ma ke ʻano o ka hiki ke lawe. Me kona puka huelo ākea a me ka ʻeke ukana kiʻekiʻe, nui ka lumi no nā mea āpau e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻolilo i hoʻokahi lā a i ʻole pule me kāu keiki liʻiliʻi.

Nā uhi papahele paʻa

ʻAʻole maoli maoli no kekahi makua e kūʻai i kaʻa me nā noho ʻili maʻalahi e hoʻomaʻemaʻe, ʻaʻole hoʻi e ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka ʻili ma mua o ka nānā ʻana. No laila, e hana i kāu mea maikaʻi loa e hoʻomaʻemaʻe a hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kāu kaʻa, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kāu mau ʻōpala papahele.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā moena papahele maʻalahi ma ka hale kūʻai ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka mea ʻole, akā i ka wā e kahe ai ka ʻōmole waiu ma ka papahele ma ka noho hope, ʻaʻole paha lākou e hopu i kēlā me kēia kulu o kēlā wai weliweli e hele hewa i ka manawa koke. Kāohi i ka ʻala ʻawaʻawa mau i loko o kou loko me ka papahele kiʻekiʻe mai Husky Liner a i ʻole WeatherTech. Me nā pūnāwai hohonu e pahele ai i nā kahe, ʻaʻole e haʻi i ka wai, ka hau a me ka lepo i nā makahiki e hiki mai ana, e kōkua kāu moena papahele iā ʻoe e mālama i ka waiwai o kāu kaʻa no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana.

Hoʻonohonoho hiki ke hoʻonohonoho ʻia

E like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua, ʻaʻohe wahi ukana i loko o kāu kaʻa ke hāpai ʻoe i kahi keiki. ʻO kēia kahi e hiki mai ai nā hoʻonohonoho noho like ʻole i ka lima. Inā ua hoʻohana ʻoe i nā noho Stow 'n' Go, maopopo iā ʻoe kēlā. Pono paha ʻoe i wahi ʻokoʻa no ka mea e huki ana ʻoe i ka wai ʻauʻau keiki i ka ʻohana, a i ʻole he pahu o nā mea pāʻani ulu nui e pono ke lawe ʻia i kahi hale kūʻai ʻai. Ma ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka noho i ka papahele, ma waho o ka ʻike a ma waho o ke ala, e hīmeni ʻoe i nā haleluia maikaʻi.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā noho e hoʻoheheʻe i mua, nā kua noho e hoʻomoe a piʻi i lalo, a me nā noho noho hiki ke wehe loa ʻia he pōmaikaʻi i ka wā o ka huki ukana. E ʻimi i kaʻa me nā hoʻonohonoho noho ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kou ola makua.

Latch wahi ma waenakonu

ʻO LATCH ka mea maʻamau no nā hoʻopaʻa noho keiki ma nā kaʻa hou a pau, e mālama pono ana i ka Junior i ka wā i hoʻokomo pono ʻia. ʻOiai ʻo LATCH (e kū nei no nā heleuma lalo a me nā tethers no nā keiki) he mau mea maʻamau, ʻaʻole maʻamau nā noho āpau. Nui nā kaʻa i loaʻa nā kiko LATCH ma nā noho o waho, hiki ke pilikia ma muli o kahi āu e noho ai i mua.

E ʻimi i kaʻa me nā wahi hoʻopili LATCH ma waenakonu o ka noho hope. Ma kēia ala e hiki ai i ka mea hoʻokele a me ke kaʻa mua ke huli maʻalahi a kōkua i ka mea kaʻa liʻiliʻi ma ka noho hope (ke kalaiwa wale nō inā palekana ke hana pēlā!!).

Noho hoʻokipa hope

E nā mākua, e ulu aʻe kāu keiki mai kahi puʻupuʻu hauʻoli a lilo i keiki liʻiliʻi a ʻoi aku. No nā kaʻa mālie a leʻaleʻa, pono ʻoe i kahi ʻōnaehana hoʻokipa noho hope. Loaʻa i kekahi mau minivans he 16-ʻīniha nui ka hōʻike ultra-widescreen, a ʻo kekahi mau SUV he mea pāʻani DVD i kau ʻia ma luna a i ʻole poʻo. E hilinaʻi iaʻu, he waiwai kēia i kou olakino noʻonoʻo. He nui wale nā ​​"Wheels on the Bus" e hele a puni i nā pōʻai.

Kākoʻo pahupaʻikiʻi

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e manaʻo he mea koʻikoʻi ia i kēia manawa, akā hiki i ke kāmela hoʻihoʻi ke mālama iā ʻoe i nā ʻeha a me nā waimaka. ʻOi aku ka maʻamau o nā kāmela hoʻihoʻi ma mua o ka wā ma mua a he koho maikaʻi loa ia. Inā ʻoe e pale ana i nā kaʻa kaʻa kaʻa a me nā mea pāʻani i waiho ʻia ma kou ala kaʻa a i ʻole nā ​​​​keiki e holo ana ma hope ou i ka wā e hoʻihoʻi ana ʻoe, hiki i nā pahu kiʻi kiʻi hope ke kōkua iā ʻoe e pale i nā pōʻino, ʻeha, a me ka pōʻino waiwai.

ʻO kēlā me kēia kaʻa ʻohana āu e koho ai, he mea nui ia e mālama iā ia i kahi hana maikaʻi loa no ka palekana o kou ʻohana. Inā ʻoe e hele ana i kahi huakaʻi ʻohana no nā pule ʻelua, a i ʻole e lawe ana i kahi kaʻa holoʻokoʻa o nā keiki i kahi pāʻina lā hānau, pono e nānā ʻia kāu kaʻa a lawelawe mau ʻia e nā mīkini loea e like me AvtoTachki.

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